You Are Allowed

Good morning beautiful W3,

I want to talk to you about something that I really feel is important and it seems the Universe is highlighting its’ importance just to make sure I don’t dismiss it unintentionally.

It is coming up in the Facebook group, on the Facebook page, in the Book Club … everywhere Wild and Wise really … and in my own life. So in case I didn’t get the hint … she (the Universe) is putting a little pressure on until I bring it out into the light. 🙂

Three simple words.

You Are Allowed.

To see the post with the writing of Rania Naim on this very topic click here.

It’s a crazy thing isn’t it? I mean of course we are allowed.  All that is in the post and more. But I don’t know about you W3 … sometimes I struggle with it.  

Sometimes I struggle between “expectation” and my wants, needs, and desires.

Sometimes I struggle with the simple boundary of saying “no.”  (And as one of you so wonderfully reminded me of a previous discussion about replacing ‘no’ with thank-you ….)

“Thank you so much for the offer, but the timing isn’t right for me this time.”

“Thank you for thinking of me, but I have plans with my Self that I really want to keep.”

“Thank you …. Thank you … Thank you …”  lol

I have to remind my Self that I AM allowed!  

I am allowed to be ME, and all that entails.

We are allowed to feel this way.

We are allowed to make a new agreement.

We are allowed to choose time with our Selves over time with you. It’s just as, if not sometimes MORE important.

We are allowed to be quiet. It doesn’t make us shy, or cold, or distant, or mad.

We are allowed to do something Wild (at least it may seem wild in your eyes).

We are allowed to choose less rather than more.

We are allowed to choose more rather than less.

Say it with me W3 …. WE ARE ALLOWED!

What are you holding your Self back from doing? From saying? From being? From trying?

I have at least one item in each of those categories lol. And you know what, I have written them down.  I invite you to do the same. Just write one thing down under each heading … and vow to your Self that you are going to take steps to rectify it.

Don’t be reckless or thoughtless. That’s not the point here at all. It is not to do harm to another obviously … so be conscious and thought FULL. This is about you and no one else (as all internal things are …)

You are allowed W3. You are brave. You are amazing.

You Are Loved,

PS. And in case you’ve missed it up to now, we have extended the book club too, so there is plenty of time for you to join us and be a part the discussion with over 400 members!

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